# | Key Points to Matching Theory |
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a. | Matching people is the process of setting up “potential” chemical (combination) reactions between individuals. |
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b. | From a physical chemistry point of view, the overall “criterion” to predict the successfulness, spontaneity, or feasibility of any chemical reaction or of the matching any two chemical entities, is based on the criterion of energetics. |
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c. | Technically, this means that at the start of a successful pairing, there exists a great deal of stored chemical potential energy, i.e. the relationship has “great potential”, and thus will continue reacting as it burns its working potential over the “extent” of the reaction. |
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d. | The release of “working energy” (G), out of the bond of the relationship and into linked systems of friends, family, associations, and society, in a virtuous manner, over the course of a successful or spontaneous reaction, is quantified by decrease in the Gibbs free energy of the pairing: this is called thermalization or equilibration. |
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e. | Successful thermalization processes, react past a desireable point, e.g. the golden anniversary (50+ years of happy marriage). |
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f. | The point at which a relationship “stops working”, however, signifies a point in time in which the reaction is at equilibrium wherein the chemical potential is spent (a fact quantified in 1876 by American mathematical engineer Willard Gibbs). |
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g. | The equilibrium point is typically when couples begin to break up, through what is called a dissociation reaction. |
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h. | In extrapolation, the “overall criterion” to the successfully matching of individuals in relationships is an energetic one, meaning that individuals have to be matched energetically (criterion: ΔG < 0 for the paring); the mechanism has to match the laws of thermodynamics. |
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i. | This can be quantified in terms of a per unit (A, B, AB, etc.) 12-factor free energy function, G = f(t), a dynamic function of time t, comprised of physical and neurological mate desireability attributes:
G = f(averageness, age, symmetry, sexuality, i.e. testosterone-to-estrogen ratios, immune system, i.e. MHC-determinants, fitness, complexion, personality, social graces, character, dependability, occupation, possessions, wealth, information, intelligence, education, knowledge, status, prestige, inner nature, values, and ambition, among others). |
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j. | Each G = f(t) function, representing a person's (A) or couple's (AB) quantifiers, must then be translated in terms of the thermodynamic energy quantifiers of enthalpy H (the heat of reaction) and entropy S (the irreversible energy loss of reaction), i.e. G = f(H,S) according to the definition equation: G = H - TS, where T is the absolute temperature of the reaction system. |
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k. | These G = f(t) energetic quantifications of individual persons can be used to determine pair feasibility for combination reactions (scientific matchings). |
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